We live in an era of adversity; but life has always presented people with ups and downs, successes and troubles. Problems are part of the overall process of life. Even the happiest people, whom everyone considers lucky and darlings of fate, encounter misfortunes from time to time, and a black streak of failures in life comes to them too. But why does it seem to us that troubles never overtake such people, and if their life is striped, then each stripe is only white?
It's all about how they behave during such periods of their lives. Positive by nature, these people know how to overcome difficulties without bitterness or regret. They don't hesitate to ask for help and support when they need it. When the bad streak ends and a streak of failure overtakes them, optimistic people learn from situations in which others simply give up, and try to see something good even in the worst. They control their own destiny and create their own lives.
Such people, it seems to us, never live in a world of suffering; however, this does not diminish the feeling of unhappiness, which in them too can be very deep and sometimes even destructive. They simply “work through” these feelings that cannot disappear overnight, while the rest simply sink to the very bottom of despair when a streak of failures overtakes them.
Life really can be unpredictable, and sometimes troubles take us by surprise. And then it is very important to know what to do if a bad streak in life has replaced a streak of luck. When we are going through a difficult period, it can help to have a concrete plan of action. Only action can clear the way in the jungle of adversity to give us space to move forward! The points of this plan may vary, it all depends on the specific person and the difficult situation in which he finds himself. But the basic steps are still the same for any case:
We refuse to admit that something bad has happened to us. And we try to hide from everyone what happened to us. This can only make the situation worse because we do not give ourselves the opportunity to cope with the reality of the situation and rationally perceive the consequences of the trouble. The sooner we accept reality, the higher our chances of moving on. Remember what successful people shared with us in this article - after all, they, too, are the first to recognize the fact that a period of bad luck has set in.
Don't panic under any circumstances. Do you know what can happen to a person who cannot swim and suddenly falls into the water? There are two options: in the first case, he will begin to panic, flop around randomly, and eventually swallow water and drown if help does not arrive in time. And in the second case, this person will try to calm down, and the water itself will push him to the surface. By remaining calm and relaxing his muscles, he will be able to control his body position and keep his head above the water. It’s the same in life - if you remain calm, you have a much better chance of resolving the situation.
You can even eat an elephant by biting off small pieces over and over again! By using this simple strategy of breaking a complex problem into several simpler ones, you can quickly see ways to solve the problem. You will dispel anxiety, regain organized, rational thinking, and get your thoughts in the right direction to see the next right move.
You can always find a way out! By depriving us of some opportunities, deprivation gives us a chance to take advantage of others. Imagine a person who has lost arms or legs. This is terrible for him and for everyone who loves him. And, of course, no one would dare to condemn the unfortunate person if he fell into depression and lost the will to live.
But we have all seen (both in real life and through television and the Internet) many examples of people who have experienced such loss and directed their efforts to what they can do, rather than to what has become inaccessible to them. An armless musician who plays beautiful melodies on the piano with his feet, an artist who paints paintings holding brushes with her teeth, a ballet dancer without one leg who dared to go on stage and dance with an equally crippled ballerina - and they dance so much that you don’t notice a crutch at all. the guy, nor the girl’s lack of a hand!
These strong-willed people set themselves challenges when they lose the ability to do things the usual way, and work to solve them. They are not simply reacting to a tragic accident in their lives, but are purposefully looking for ways to continue living an active life. We need to learn from them not to fall into despair and to look for a way out of bad luck and failure at any cost.
There is absolutely no need to fight troubles and troubles alone. Interesting fact: scientists have conducted all sorts of studies trying to unravel the phenomenon of centenarians. You can come up with all sorts of theories, based on the characteristics of nutrition, environment and other factors that could cause such longevity in venerable elders. But one common factor unites these people, who have managed to survive more than one adversity during their long lives - this is their connection with other people, the ability to accept help and provide support to everyone who needs it.
They retain the feeling that they have been let down or betrayed by circumstances, people, or even life itself. Their souls are wounded and bleeding, the joy of life is lost. Remaining thoughts in their past, which brought them misfortune, they seem to agree that unpleasant events can repeat themselves. It is necessary to take responsibility for your life, for your physical, psychological, emotional and spiritual well-being, and not allow all the circumstances and situations that you encounter to manipulate you like a puppet.
Resilience allows you to cope with adversity, overcome stress, and be able to recover from grief while gaining valuable experience. Each of us has the potential to recover from setbacks and return to normal life. If we do not use this potential, then over time we lose it. But we can increase our ability to overcome challenges and achieve amazing results even in the most challenging conditions. It is the desire to learn to successfully cope with failures and adversity that can make us successful and happy - both now and in the future. And they will also say about us that we are lucky and fortunate.
Re-read the list of everything that would be useful to pay your attention to, and choose the most suitable items for yourself. You can expand this list by adding what would most help you weather the storms of life.
There is one very good exercise. Imagine that you are floating in a boat on the river of life. Sometimes the river is calm, the sun is shining and there is a beautiful landscape all around. But around the bend the river begins to boil, it begins to rain, and a thunderstorm thunders. And you are still in the boat and remain calm. You know the rain will stop soon. You can't control the rain, but you can control the boat so that it floats forward to where the river flows smoothly and calmly again.
It's the same in life. Don't try to control circumstances, only command yourself. Just become the captain of your life.
Overcoming adversity can be difficult in times of despair, when a black streak of failure and misfortune begins. It is not surprising that we may feel pain at first, but the skills we acquire and the resilience we cultivate will help us overcome any changes in life. Our lives can be like a roller coaster - with many ups, downs and turns. You must follow your thorny path without stopping or turning back. It may even be scary at first, but don't give up! Life can be harsh and hard on us; but just like a roller coaster ride, the difficult time will come to an end, a white streak will come and the disaster will be a thing of the past.
Trouble means change - our lives change, we ourselves change. But it depends only on us whether we will find the strength and opportunity to eventually return to normal life and move on with it.
Joyful feelings are replaced by anxious ones, happiness alternates with unhappiness. A person knows that the dark streak in life will someday end, and in the future pleasant moments and bright events await him again. But what to do if troubles, problems and trials accompany a person for quite a long time? What to do when plans keep falling apart?
You should not endure adversity patiently. It's time to stop complaining and listen to your feelings. Often fate presents people with certain opportunities, but the person does not notice them and does not respond to the prompts of fate. To get rid of the black streak and get out of the negative, it is necessary to eliminate the main causes of failure:
The human body is not a garbage container. Much in life depends on physical and psychological health. If you do not reconsider your views, it will be difficult to cope with even the simplest stress, which means it will become impossible to stop the emergence of new problems.
What to do if problems do not go away is difficult for the average person to understand. Psychologists recommend creating a daily routine and distributing important tasks. You shouldn’t deny yourself walks or going to the cinema. The main thing is to adhere to the developed scheme.
Unresolved problems need to be brought to the forefront. Stop complaining about evil fate, pull yourself together and improve your life. Narrow your circle of contacts, refuse to meet with pessimists. Describe your goals very clearly on paper and soberly assess the chances of success. Is there a real opportunity to solve the problem quickly? You should immediately draw up a plan for further actions (steps) for its implementation. After a couple of days, a person will notice that another streak has begun in his life - white.
You can throw a pinch of salt over your left shoulder. The method will help interrupt the occurrence of negative events in a person’s life. Astrologers and numerologists offer on the 29th day of the lunar month, perform the following rituals:
After this, you should stand in the center of the room with your eyes closed. Feel how every cell of the body relaxes. Imagine that multi-colored rays are flying towards you from 8 sides. For example, from the north - a blue ray of luck, from the southeast - a red ray of love, etc. All rays connect in the place where the person is standing.
You need to enjoy this moment. The described visualization must be carried out several times a month so that luck always remains with the person.
To get rid of a bad streak in life and remove troubles, you can turn to a priest. He will recommend fasting and reading prayers in the morning and evening for 7 days. After this, you need to come to the temple for the evening service and give alms to those in need. During the service, you should confess and take a blessing for communion. Do not have dinner on this day.
The next morning, come to the morning service and take communion.
Main conditions for positive change:
Trials and misfortunes contribute to personal development, making a person stronger and more resilient. We must remember that faith in yourself and your strengths, goodwill and optimism are considered the main “recipes” for changing life for the better.
No one is immune from difficult periods. It is impossible to prepare for them, because you cannot find out about them in advance. Just now everything was calm - and suddenly problems and troubles pile up one after another, plunging you into depression and depriving you of the ability to withstand the blows of fate. How to regain composure and change the situation for the better?
Unfortunately, many at such moments begin to believe in the evil eye and damage. It’s not surprising, because it’s easier to blame otherworldly forces for all your troubles and misfortunes than to try to find the cause within yourself. But we are sensible people and will not follow the path of least resistance, but will try to figure out why the black streak has come. Is all this so unexpected, was everything so calm before this day?
Global disasters, natural disasters, catastrophes, loss of loved ones, serious illness, loss of personal property... You cannot influence all these events in any way. Therefore, change your attitude towards them before they drive you into a corner from which even a kitten is seen as a bloodthirsty monster.
If you upset the balance in your own life for a long time, then sooner or later it will make itself felt. For example, if you spend 24 hours a day at work, is it any wonder that your marriage has cracked and your child has gotten away from you? And if you are constrained by self-doubt, lack of faith in your strengths, then you begin to refuse interesting offers, do not see prospects, putting yourself in a framework from which you are no longer able to get out.
Our thoughts and habitual expressions (sayings) determine our attitude towards the world and tend to attract what we think and talk about. If you subconsciously do not believe in your success (in work or personal life), if you expect that you will not find happiness and that you will always be haunted by failures, then so be it. If only because if you expect the bad, you won’t notice the good.
If you don't know what you want, it's very easy to get sidetracked. This means that you will perceive any incident as bad luck and you can start fighting at windmills instead of focusing on the things that really matter to you.
Sometimes our troubles arise from the light hand of envious people and enemies. If you voluntarily or unwittingly crossed someone’s path (at work or in a relationship), think about whether you will fight and defend your interests? Or you don’t need the “prize” (someone else’s husband, for example). In this case, isn't it better to retreat? Or maybe you somehow offended your pursuer? Then admit your guilt and make peace with the person.
Assess the situation by answering the question: in what areas do you have difficulties - at work, in relationships with your loved one, family, in everyday life?
If problems are concentrated in one area, there is no point in talking about a black streak.
Analyze what is the true reason for a series of misfortunes, what mistakes you made. If something can be fixed, make a plan and take action.
■ Assess losses and resources. List all the means available to you (accumulated experience, knowledge, close, business contacts) and determine what will help you get out of the situation.
■ Find balance: try to balance all areas of your life, without allowing it to skew to one side. If you are a real workaholic, then if there are problems in the family, you should not throw yourself into work. On the contrary, take a vacation and spend time with your loved ones, even if at first it seems to you that they do not understand you or reject you. You just need to relearn how to communicate with them, understand what is important to them.
If you have noted at least three problem areas, you should admit: now is really not the best time for you.
■ Let your emotions come out. You shouldn’t pretend and prove to everyone, especially yourself, that everything is fine. This will only make your situation worse and could lead to health problems. Let the negativity spill out: cry, scream, swear, break dishes. But you just don’t need to stretch out this period and “suffer” for too long.
■ Change your usual environment. Go out of town for the weekend, and if possible, take a vacation and go on a trip. But even short trips help clear your mind and take a fresh look at the situation. If the stress has been prolonged, try to go out into nature more often, walk in the park, and relax alone.
■ Free up your living space. Rearrange or renovate your apartment, throw out the junk that has accumulated over the years, change your hairstyle, update your wardrobe.
■ Ask for help. Don’t try to keep everything to yourself, don’t distance yourself from your loved ones - share your experiences with them, ask for support. Their mere presence in your life and sympathy will help you switch gears and gain strength. And if they offer you help, don’t resist: believe me, you don’t have to cope with everything on your own.
■ Avoid whiners and pessimists, try to surround yourself with cheerful people. The more positive there is around, the lighter your soul and the easier it is to cope with difficulties.
Lose one's temper. Hysteria and panic are not the best companions, because chaotic behavior can only complicate your situation. Pull yourself together and collect your thoughts.
Seizing problems. Don’t try to “drown” your hopelessness in food and especially in alcohol. Such “rescue” measures bring only short-term relief. But the consequences can plunge you into depression, simultaneously creating new problems.
Feel sorry for yourself. Endless whining and complaints about life will only keep you in a “dark streak”, because you waste time suffering rather than looking for a solution. Analyze what happened to find a way out. Be honest with yourself, learn from the current situation and don’t repeat the mistakes.
It happens that everything collapses - a loved one leaves, problems begin at work and with health, conflicts arise literally out of nowhere. We call this a black streak and often just give up, waiting for it to end. But in vain! This scourge can and must be fought. But this is what we’ll talk about today.
Looking for root causes
But first we need to find out where the legs of this black stripe come from. After all, nothing happens just like that, without a reason. And there may be several reasons for your misfortunes:
1. You have been jinxed
There are people who are haunted by other people's happiness and successes, even if they do not directly affect their interests, and in this case, that is, in relation to the black streak, we are not talking about envy as such, rather we can talk about selfishness and low self-esteem of a person , which causes the evil eye. For example, there are two relatives - mother and daughter, sister and sister, grandmother and granddaughter, etc., and one of them, having established her personal life or successfully making a career, breaks away and moves away from the other. She begins to devote less time to her, or even leaves for another city. Accordingly, this becomes the cause of resentment and a desire to return everything to normal. By and large, close relatives don’t even need to do anything special - if the desire to regain their close relative is too great, then everything happens on the mental level - obeying the “relative” order, reality begins to fall apart.
2. You have been damaged
Damage is already deliberately caused harm, evil that acts purposefully. The cause of damage may be an unseemly act that you committed and for which you are being taken revenge, or a desire to take possession of what you possess. Damage mainly manifests itself in the context of a black streak in health problems. Often comes along with a love spell on the man you consider yours.
3. They envied you
Envy is a great force, but for it to cause a black streak, it must come from a person very close to you, who knows your strengths and weaknesses and can, one way or another, influence you. If your neighbor is jealous of you because you bought a new fur coat, it’s not a problem, it’s her problem, but if a close friend has been jealous of you for a long time, this is much more serious. Her envy accumulates over the years and at some point begins to consume not only your friend’s energy, but also your own, and then a bad streak may arise. There is only one way out - to urgently identify this “good” friend and get rid of her company. Once and for all.
4. They write for peace
This is in some way akin to damage, also a purposeful method of causing evil, but it generally concerns all aspects of life. It is precisely because of these actions that a black streak most often arises, since a person, suspecting nothing and unable to resist, becomes a victim of a curse. And it disappears only when similar problems begin in the family of the evil one. However, most often this is what happens. Therefore, you just have to survive a black streak of such origin. And further. If you have not found other explanations for your misfortunes, go to church and talk to the priest. Perhaps some of his actions will speed up your getting rid of the black streak.
5. You made a bad decision some time ago.
Often, breaking everything in our lives, Fate shows us that we took the wrong path - we fell in love with a man from whom serious danger emanated, we chose a job that does not meet our internal needs, we committed meanness. And in order for us to fix this, it’s as if they are taking away from us what we have. In this case, you just need to analyze what you did wrong. For example, every day, overcoming yourself, you go to work that brings neither moral nor material satisfaction. This can last a year, two, three, or maybe just a couple of months - it all depends on your stamina. But sooner or later your body begins to take revenge on you for the state of constant stress. Health problems begin, endless sick leave, and, as a result, refusal of a place. And all because you went against your nature and did not live in harmony with yourself. Something similar happens when Fate shows you your true destiny over and over again, but you remain deaf and blind to its signs. Then she just takes you and puts you in a position where you have no choice but to follow your
6. You have a serious enemy
Every person, sooner or later in his life, is faced with the fact that he is haunted by a series of failures, troubles, and a string of troubles. Usually this stage is temporary, it is sure to be followed by positive changes in life. But going through a difficult period can be very difficult, especially if a person is receptive and vulnerable by nature. To speed up the process of a protracted streak of failures, you can use magical actions. If there is a bad streak in life, what to do, a conspiracy will help you overcome it as quickly as possible and avoid unpleasant consequences, return the usual rhythm of life to its previous course. Rituals and conspiracies will help if a bad streak has begun, if a person really needs help and if there is an attitude towards a positive outcome.
A dark streak is a difficult period in life, which is characterized by a large number of suddenly accumulated problems and confusing situations. Before using a conspiracy against a bad streak in life, you should analyze the situation. The main signs of the presence of negative energy are:
Headaches are the main symptom of a bad streak in life.
You can remove negative influences with the help of magical rituals.
Psychologists and specialists in the field of occultism claim that a person’s negative attitude can change his life for the worse. The reasons for a lingering black streak include:
A negative attitude can ruin your life
Believe in success and smile more often
How to get rid of the black streak of life? Getting rid of a string of failures is possible with the help of conspiracies. The ritual using a chicken egg is very effective. After sunset, roll an egg on your chest, saying:
“As I roll an egg, I roll out evil spells from life: go away, leave me, disappear from body and mind. I say goodbye to dark witchcraft, I expel the enemy from everyday life. You are no longer my master, I am my own master. I can heal myself and put up protection forever and protect myself from disasters. From now on, neither the evil eye, nor the slander, nor the damage will disturb me. Amen!".
Carry out these actions for about ten minutes. Then write the words on the egg with a black felt-tip pen:
“I send all troubles into the egg.”
After the ritual, bury the egg outside, in a deserted place under a tree.
You can also use warm water. You need to rinse yourself with it every day, while reading the words:
Use warm water to wash your face in the morning
“Water, water, water, true beauty, you have always been a healer and savior for me, so help me this time too. Deliver life from dark oppression and life's devastation. I ask you to save my house from damage and add heavenly strength. I pray that you wash away all the failures and black streaks. Let it be so".
Get rid of failures with the help of the following plot. Bake a pie, buy a can of milk, collect a few coins in a towel or handkerchief, go to the cemetery. Find an unmarked grave, spread a cloth, put gifts on it. Bow to the deceased and ask him for help. Say:
“Dead man, wipe away troubles and failures from me, let happiness come to me forever.” This ritual can only be done once.
With the help of conspiracies, they not only get rid of failures. You can also install protection. Say a protective spell for a month when in contact with water - for example, while cooking, bathing, eating or cleaning the house:
“At the origins of life there is a word behind which water was hidden. Voditsa, water, you are always with me. I ask you to keep my strength with me, but not to give it to anyone in life. Just as you cleanse my body, so you cleanse my thoughts, and bestow health on my soul. Become a strong protection for me. Let it be so".
It is very important to understand that you build your own life, you yourself can control many events. Use the following recommendations and expert advice for yourself:
Stop thinking that you are a failure